An open letter to my son - Part 17

Most people are “listening” with the intent to reply.  They are simply hearing you out and formulating a response.  

I encourage you to be an attentive listener (at the least).  Better yet, be an empathetic listener.  Listen to truly understand the person you are communicating with.  Put yourself in their shoes.  How would you feel if you were in their situation?

You must be vulnerable to be empathetic.  Be vulnerable and seek the welfare of the person you are listening to.  

If you work diligently to understand others you will be trusted, respected . . . and you will be understood.