straight shooting from a freaked-out, first-time father
Thursday, May 13, 2010
Family Values
• When I was a kid, my favorite books were the ValueTale series by Spencer Johnson, MD. They came once a month. I always looked forward to their arrival. When we found out we were having Bennett, I purchased the complete set on ebay. Tonight we started in on the series with "The Value of Patience - The Story of the Wright Brothers". Maybe eight days old is too early for a child to understand the power of a good story - but he did stop crying when I started reading (plus with his early arrival, he could learn a thing or two about patience). So we learned about how the Wright Brothers wanted to put an engine on a glider so it would stay in the air. Their father taught them that "patience means not getting mad when something takes a long time." The Wright Brothers used the value of patience to fly the first airplane in Kitty Hawk, NC (where Daddy took hang gliding lessons a few years ago). Bennett dozed off before he realized that if we are patient we can accomplish anything we want (we'll save that lesson for his third week of life).
• I went back to work yesterday. What a feeling to come home to your family (smiling wife, happy baby, and a dog wagging his tail off).
• I used a cool trick of shooting a few drops of breast milk (from a bottle, not directly from the breast) up Bennett's nose to clear out his blocked nostrils. A bulb syringe and a couple sneezes later he went from whistling through his nose to breathing free!
• A couple of fellow fathers have told me, "Life begins now." . . . I believe them.
• I'm working on my diaper change time (ala nascar pit crew) . . . doodie is my duty.
• I feel like having a baby minimizes the browser on the rest of your life.
• I look back at the last nine months in disbelief. We've moved 1700 miles, remodeled a commercial space, started a business, and (most importantly) all this has happened (save the last minute):
Well, once i can dry my eyes enough to type....Oh what a treasured gift to your child, Dave and Karah. The video just blew me away!! Do you know, that I can still remember the first flutter of each of my children. I don't think that ever leaves you! i thank Matt for sending me the sight. What lovely friends he has!!
"My father gave me the greatest gift anyone could give another person, he believed in me." - Jim Valvano
"By the time a man realizes that maybe his father was right, he usually has a son who thinks he's wrong." -Charles Wadsworth
"It's not about how to achieve your dreams, it's about how to lead your life, ... If you lead your life the right way, the karma will take care of itself, the dreams will come to you."
-Randy Pausch (The Last Lecture)
"My father instilled in me that if you don't see things happening the way you want them to, you get out there and make them happen." - Susan Powter
Well, once i can dry my eyes enough to type....Oh what a treasured gift to your child, Dave and Karah. The video just blew me away!! Do you know, that I can still remember the first flutter of each of my children. I don't think that ever leaves you! i thank Matt for sending me the sight. What lovely friends he has!!
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